You need three types of people in your life.
1️⃣ The one you never want to disappoint
They raise your standards without saying a word.
Could be a parent, a partner, a child, or a mentor.
Someone whose opinion matters so much that, when faced with a difficult choice, you instinctively ask yourself:
‘What would they think of me?’
2️⃣ The one who covers your back
The person who believes in you even when you are not at your best.
They know your flaws. They have seen you fail. And yet, when things go south, they are still standing next to you.
No judgement. No score keeping.
Just: ‘I’ve got you.’
3️⃣ The one you want to prove wrong
This may sound odd.
You don’t need to spend your life proving people wrong. But I think this person has a role too.
Every now and then, someone underestimates us. Or tells us we cannot do something. Or casually dismisses us.
And something inside us says:
“Let’s see.”
That little spark can be surprisingly powerful.
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You intuitively know who these are.
#1 keeps your standards high.
#2 gives you the courage to stumble.
#3 sparks the fire in you.
Count your blessings if you have all three.
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